Peach Pickin' Time

Sunday, August 31, 2008



I'm a peach purist...if I'm going to eat fresh peaches, they are going to be from a roadside stand and have to come from Georgia or South Carolina...which means I don't get to eat fresh peaches all that much. There's one farmer's market on the way to OBX that sells fresh Georgia peaches and they are wonderful! It's like chocolate to me...if I'm going to enjoy, I really just want the best, not some semi-wax chocolate concoction. So, I've never really noticed that eating fresh peaches, skin and all, isn't a good idea for me. I've had tingly lips from it before, but nothing more than that.

Well, Connor loves farms and I was looking for something to do this weekend and he proposed we "go to a farm and pick something." Here it's too late for strawberries and blackberries, almost too late for blueberries, and too early for apples and grapes. That left peaches and who knew you can pick peaches here? We use the http://www.pickyourown.org/ site, even when we travel, to find good farms. I've never been peach picking before, but how hard can it be, right? Thank goodness for my Garmin, because to a city girl, this farm felt like it was at the ends of the earth. We made it to the farm and Connor met the farmer, learned we'd be picking white flesh peaches, which disappointed me a little, but off we went, the only two picking that day.

The orchard was beautiful- remote and surrounded by water, with endless rows of fruit trees. Connor found our row and we began to pick. About 10 minutes into it, we were hot, sweaty, and really itchy. I couldn't figure out what was causing this, but it wasn't enough to keep us from our peaches, so we kept on picking. I ate one small peach in the field, and noticed my lips and face started to tingle. Obviously that taste was not a good idea. After about an hour in the field we ended up picking a little over five pecks, which weighed in just over 50 pounds (What was I thinking I would do with all of these peaches?). Connor and I had a great conversation about God's creation, His gifts, where peach trees come from, how the farmer cares for them just as God cares for us, etc... We payed the farmer and departed, me, very happy that I am not a migrant worker on a farm, a farmer, or a peach picker.

Well, I was still itching like crazy and Connor was too; then he was crying that he was just too itchy. The poor kid had bright red cheeks and was miserable, while I had splotches on my face and small hives developing on my hands. We finally made it home, showered, and besides having a headache and some sinus issues, we were fine. Then today, faced with all of these peaches, I got to work boiling, peeling, cutting, and mashing peaches. After giving away about 20 pounds of peaches to friends and neighbors, I am no Martha Stewart, I decided to attempt to make peach butter. And now that I am taking a break from being elbow deep in peaches, I can say that it is too much damn work. And I am having the same crazy reaction that Connor and I had yesterday- ugh!


Guess what we've since learned? You can be allergic to peach skins, but not the flesh itself! I had no idea, but now I know better. If you already prone to hayfever or pollen allergies, you are also likely to have an allergy to peach skin, but not the flesh. Additionally, 40% of those of Spanish and Italian descent (I am the latter) are prone to this allergy, along with 75% of those from Israeli descent. I was completely shocked to learn this! We also learned that those with allergic reactions to peach skins are also prone to have an allergic reaction to apple skins when apple picking, but not apples in the store, because they have been coated with wax. You can bet this will be first and last attempt at creating peach butter, tree to canning.

Don't get me wrong, I loved feeling connected to the earth, gathering my food, having quiet time with Connor, with no one else around and beautiful landscapes as far as the eye could see. I have a much greater appreciation for those who continuously make homemade items such as jams, jellies, butters, and canned items, such as my Nana, who just brought me currant jelly made fresh from her garden currants. After 5 hours in the kitchen, and a peach butter concoction that must cook overnight, then be placed in sterilized jars, canned, etc., I can definitively say two things: 1. I have a much greater appreciation for anyone who does this on a regular basis, such as our Amish friends, and 2. I'll stock up on canned items and preserves on the next one of our multiple trips to Lancaster, PA.

Back to Nature

We've had some bizarre encounters with nature lately! Connor and I were both "bit" by a turkey last weekend and yesterday I was was bit, then peed on, by a box turtle. To put this in context, we went to Bluebird Gap Farm last weekend, one of Connor's favortite spots to run and feed the animals. It's a nice little farm right in the middle of the City of Hampton. We feed the deer, goats, cows, chickens, etc... Now, I've been pecked by chickens and roosters, bit by geese and ducks, along with cats, dogs, and goats, sucked on by a cow, nibbled by a horse, but I had yet to be bit by a turkey (not that I was trying). Connor and I were walking by the turkeys, who were obviously hungry, and one ran up, bit Connor, then bit me. Let me tell you, it HURTS! We are now watchful of the kamikaze turkey on the farm.



Yesterday, on our way to pick peaches, Connor and I spied a box turtle crossing the road and stopped to rescue him. I forgot what I quickly learned as a kid: a scared turtle pees and bites if he's not the kind to pop back into his shell. This was a fiesty one, and sure enough, was stretching his neck out as far back as he could to bite me...which is nothing compared to that turkey. I get the turtle in the car and of course, he pees all over me. Connor thought this was hilarious, me, not so much. We went to my parent's house, I cleaned up, gave the turtle some grapes and lettuce, then we let him go in their backyard. Connor felt good about rescuing an animal, just like Diego, and we were off to the peach orchards.

"Say What You Need to Say..."

Thursday, August 28, 2008

That John Mayer song has been running through my head this week.

You know that in the end
It's better to say too much
Than never to say what you need to say again

Well, I'm glad someone sees it my way. Seriously, it's just been one of those weeks. We finally had to put Sammy down yesterday, and I don't care if I seemed like a total idiot talking and crying to my dog in the middle of the vet's office. She gave us 13 great years; the least I could do was thank her, tell her how much she was loved, how much she'll be missed, and that it's ok to go...to be free of the earthly body failing her.

I've grown great relationships by taking a risk and saying what I needed to say, and I've crashed a couple by speaking my mind. In the end, I'm alright with that. I'm me, imperfect as I may be, and I require honesty and authenticity. I've been mulling over some substantial thoughts lately, related to my career, but I've taken no action. Today, I said what I needed to say, with the fear that it may have been too much or too premature, but with the comfort that opportunity will not pass me by due to my own silence or inaction.

If you could only
Say what you need to say

Mamma Mia!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

I LOVED this movie! Those of you who know me well, know that says a lot, as I am not a movie junkie. I don't even own many DVDs because I will rarely watch a movie more that once. We were swimming at my parents' this afternoon when out of the blue Connor asks "Nonna and Poppy, can I spend the night at your house?" and I was just as shocked when they said "Yes." Oooh...a whole evening of babysitting- why not catch a movie I've been wanting to see?

Forget the fact that I only know about 25% of the songs in this movie, it now ranks up there with my short list of favorites, such as "Under the Tuscan Sun" and "My Big Fat Greek Wedding." The independent spirits of Donna and her daughter Sophie, the strong friendships that weave throughout, and the surprises love can bring us all emanate from this well written screenplay. I couldn't help but dance in my seat to "Dancing Queen" and "Take a Chance on Me." And now I hear that starting August 29, select theaters will be hosting "Mamma Mia" singalongs. Hmmmm... :)

Heavenly Dog

Friday, August 22, 2008


I took Connor to the park this afternoon- it was such a beautiful day here. While on the swings with his friend, Connor got very serious and asked,

"Mom, do you have to take Sammy to heaven?"

"Well Connor, I don't take her to heaven, angels will take her."

To which Connor replied, "Will they drive up in a car, to our house, to come and get her?" and "Can Sammy come back from heaven?"

Poor kiddo- our 13 year old pooch is in failing health, and we wanted to prepare Connor for the inevitable. We were all saddened and shocked with the death of our two cats last spring (Sascha-12, Mitzi-23), then Connor lost 13 koi from my parents' pond around the same time. He was devastated, so we thought it would be best to start talking to him about Sammy being very old, very ill, and that she will probably die soon, and what we believe happens after one dies. It was the right decision for our family- Connor is adjusting to the idea and it gives us a forum to discuss the circle of life. I know once Sammy goes it will still be sad, it will still be a loss, and it will still be painful to lose his buddy, but I am thankful that it will not be a total shock. And I can tell from Connor's questions, he is seriously thinking about all of the implications...will Dakota (our other dog) die? Is King (fish) going to die? Salem (cat)? This has allowed us to answer any of Connor's questions related to life and death and I am impressed with what he comes up with. Ultimatey, I'm thankful we can talk with Connor about this subject, and answer his questions as best we can.


Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, August 20, 2008


I've completely stolen the "Wordless Wednesday" idea from my friend Amber's blog, but some photos just don't need any words.

List of 33

My 33rd birthday was this past Sunday and I recently came across some readings related to goal setting; did you know some crazy folks are striving to accomplish 1001 goals by 01/01/10? Hmmm, sounds good, but I don't even have the time to think about 1001 things, let alone make a list. Then I got to thinking, what about 330 items for my 33rd birthday? Mark brought me back down to reality and said "why not start with 33 things to accomplish in the next year?" Yes, good plan...glad I married a man with common sense. Here's the list of 33 personal goals, to be accomplished by 8/17/09, in random order. Drumroll please...

1. Clean/organize the house...yes, the WHOLE house
2. Pack up Connor's baby clothes/items
3. Finalize a will
4. Readjust my stock/401 k- COMPLETED 8/20
5. Finish scrapbooking through Connor's 3rd year (think I stopped at 9 months)
6. Lose weight
7. Make appt. with trainer at the Y, to make #6 a possibility
8. Clean out the garage
9. Paint the dining room
10. Hire someone to paint the alcove over the hall, and the upstairs hall
11. Take Connor back to NJ/NYC
12. Save a greater % of income
13. Reduce debt
14. Get my taxes/receipts in order early vs. the last minute panic
15. Finish novel
16. Quiet/devotional time each day
17. Grow grass in the backyard
18. New deck
19. New windows
20. Find a spot for a garden next spring (our lot is so shady)
21. Remodel Connor's bathroom
22. Volunteer
23. Keep up with snail mail and birthday cards
24. Use video camera more
25. Learn to tranfer videos from mini-DVDs to ones that actually play
26. Get digital voice recorder for Connor
27. Learn how to store the audio files from #26
28. Learn how to use my MP3 (yes, I know, pathetic)
29. Get a hammock and install on #18
30. Get the chimney cleaned before winter
31. Continue with Italian studies (I've been a slacker)
32. Walk Dax more...aiming for daily, but the dog is a freak!
33. Floss

In looking back over this list, it's quite serious and boring. Perhaps I'll author a list for my advenurous side too...stay tuned.

Monday's Musings

Monday, August 18, 2008

A special treat for Connor lately is being able to snuggle in our bed and watch a movie of his choosing. I'm not one of those moms that allows my child to be a television zombie, so it truly is a treat for Connor to join us for a movie. My dad recently introduced him to Abbott and Costello movies, which Connor wants to watch more than Barney- that must be true love for any three year old. Thankfully, Connor is not afraid of the monsters ("Abbott and Costello Meet Frankenstien") and says, "Mom (exasperated), they're not real, they're just pretend!"

My favorite musings from Connor tonight, while watching "Hold That Ghost," are "That Abbott, he's a funny little guy!" and "Those two are opposites- the short, fat one and the tall, skinny one."


But the best one of all is about the Andrews sisters singing in the movie...

"I don't like those girls and I do not think they are good singers."

"Why don't you like those girls, Connor?"

"They have bad hair, Mom."

Well, I can't argue with the bad hair.